Hi, my name is Raquel Benjamin I'm married with 5kids and one who's about to graduate from high school. When i was sixteen I had my first child, i was in high school and had to take care of my child with no help from her father. So I gave my child up to my mother until I decided to grow up and do whats right for my daughter. So at the time i party until i was 25 meet my husband and had my son i wait to get married because i wanted to make sure this wasn't going to be like my last relationship.
Lord, and behold he wasn't. He ask me to marry him and I except we wed in 2000 and now share 3 more beautiful kids. I have 3 girls age 6,5,17 and 2boys 10,and 2. So i realize i was unhappy and wanted to do something better for myself and my kids so in 07 my husband ask me to go back to school and he will help me to better myself. I though to myself how in the world will i be able to do school and a family. I was afraid and worry

So my husband help me look for different online college. We look for about a month and find ashworth. Its just hard to balance out my family and school work. But, I enjoy my school i finish my high school with pcdi and recieve my high school diploma. Now, I'm about to gruduate in 2010 and i feel wonder and very proud of myself but what I'm most proud of is my kids will know that you can be anything when u put your mind to it, I have a wonderful husband by myside and my Father is still alive to see me finish college. He has cancer and heart problems. He made it his business to stay here with his family and he tell me everyday that god not ready but when he is he will be ready to go but before he go to be with god i want him to know his little girl is just as strong as he is.....